Fights in a marriage can turn really ugly, really quickly. Pride and ego have a tendency to rear their ugly heads and interfere with accomplishing any progress, but never fear – Ziglar is here. There is an answer for when you know that you’re right but you can’t seem to stem the flow of arguing, and in his above video, Fighting Fair, Zig Ziglar details how to solve marriage fights of any kind.
The most important thing to do when you are fighting, and you just know that you’re right, but the solution seems like a far-off idea that will never come around, is to remember that the argument must end. You are looking for a resolution. However, the vital piece of information here is that you are in a disagreement and you are seeking a solution and that, “Regardless of who is at fault – don’t place the blame, but fix the cause.” The answer is not in who is right and who is wrong. The answer lies in discovering what is right and what is wrong.